Saturday, January 06, 2007
Naps and nappy-breaks
Life is truly energetic for an 8-month old baby. When Morgan wakes up in the morning, his happy face lights up as if to say: TODAY is going to be so exciting! I wonder what fun I'm going to get!
He looks at his mummy and goes 'babababa' as if to say : 'What shall we do today? Are we swimming, singing, walking, or going to the ball park?' So no matter how tired I feel (which seems like most of the time), I will drag myself out of bed and get on with the day!
Most people (especially dads) seem to think that being a mum is like having a dream-job. I think it's because mums seem to be able to get up late in the mornings, have coffee breaks and naps throughout the day and don't get told off by anyone. Of course dads feel that this cannot be worse than them being at work (but at least they're paid!). But a mother's job is so much more , and it's wageless too .... simple activities like feeding - can easily take up all day. Now that he's on solids, there's the preparation, the cooking, the freezing and de-frosting ... so many stages! Sometimes I wish that I could breast-feed forever. At this stage, they are not just messy but slow eaters too! At other times they can be messy with a strop!
Then of course the daddies come home smiling and looking forward to play baby-swinging activities while mums have been putting up with the whinging and crying all day long.
And if anything there's also the tidying, cleaning and washing (especially with smelly nappies urghh!) to catch up on in between - where got time for naps? So the going-out-and-having-fun option is sometimes better than the staying-home-and-going-mad option. Afterall, dads can be mums for a day but mums can never resign from being mothers.
He looks at his mummy and goes 'babababa' as if to say : 'What shall we do today? Are we swimming, singing, walking, or going to the ball park?' So no matter how tired I feel (which seems like most of the time), I will drag myself out of bed and get on with the day!
Most people (especially dads) seem to think that being a mum is like having a dream-job. I think it's because mums seem to be able to get up late in the mornings, have coffee breaks and naps throughout the day and don't get told off by anyone. Of course dads feel that this cannot be worse than them being at work (but at least they're paid!). But a mother's job is so much more , and it's wageless too .... simple activities like feeding - can easily take up all day. Now that he's on solids, there's the preparation, the cooking, the freezing and de-frosting ... so many stages! Sometimes I wish that I could breast-feed forever. At this stage, they are not just messy but slow eaters too! At other times they can be messy with a strop!
Then of course the daddies come home smiling and looking forward to play baby-swinging activities while mums have been putting up with the whinging and crying all day long.
And if anything there's also the tidying, cleaning and washing (especially with smelly nappies urghh!) to catch up on in between - where got time for naps? So the going-out-and-having-fun option is sometimes better than the staying-home-and-going-mad option. Afterall, dads can be mums for a day but mums can never resign from being mothers.
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Hi Pats,
I know. I know. I know exactly what you are on about! It's so nice to be on holiday and not have to worry about cleaning the house or tending to a million little tasks while taking care of Eloise at the same time. She so likes my undivided attention and I so like giving it to her. She's nearly 15 mo. and now she knows how to take directions. Ian told her to "kiss mommy" and she did it. I can die a happy woman.
I know. I know. I know exactly what you are on about! It's so nice to be on holiday and not have to worry about cleaning the house or tending to a million little tasks while taking care of Eloise at the same time. She so likes my undivided attention and I so like giving it to her. She's nearly 15 mo. and now she knows how to take directions. Ian told her to "kiss mommy" and she did it. I can die a happy woman.
ms E,
Little E is so sweet ... just like her marmeeee!!!!
Morgan, can u hurry up and learn how to give mummy your bisou-bisou?
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Little E is so sweet ... just like her marmeeee!!!!
Morgan, can u hurry up and learn how to give mummy your bisou-bisou?
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