Sunday, April 19, 2009
Bon Anniversaire Morgan ...
When Morgan celebrated his birthday this year, I could hardly believe that he turned 3!
He seems to be growing up too quickly ... and after Elun arrived, he no longer seems like a baby - or my baby!!! Yet another part of me is just feeling like the good times are looming because Morgan is becoming more independent every day.
We did not have a big celebration for Morgan as he did not know many friends yet. Having just begun school in St-Jean Baptiste , we invited only 2 friends from his class, Epvre and Marin. Funnily the 'r' in french is kind of difficult for me when I speak, as you have to sound like you are not saying it when you try to pronounce it. Complicated lar - just like the french!
And then I realised too that Morgan's birthday is really close to Elun's (only a month apart) so we doubled up the weekend with Elun's 满 月 or the notable first-month's celebration. In traditional belief, it is said that infant mortality rates in China were high and a baby after reaching the first month, ensues a greater likelihood for survival. Hence the call for a celebration.
We did this for Elun because we were so pleased that she arrived safely, albeit getting chicken-pox and chest infections from Morgan later on ... *sigh* as early as 2 weeks old too. Nonetheless she recovered from all that! We even prepared red eggs (we couldn't find red-dye in the french supermarket so we used red water-colour paint to paint over the eggs instead!) and made a little feast. The custom of red-dyed eggs are traditionally handed out as take-home gifts for guests - symbolising happiness and a renewal of life but in our case, we did it for display purpose only.
He seems to be growing up too quickly ... and after Elun arrived, he no longer seems like a baby - or my baby!!! Yet another part of me is just feeling like the good times are looming because Morgan is becoming more independent every day.
We did not have a big celebration for Morgan as he did not know many friends yet. Having just begun school in St-Jean Baptiste , we invited only 2 friends from his class, Epvre and Marin. Funnily the 'r' in french is kind of difficult for me when I speak, as you have to sound like you are not saying it when you try to pronounce it. Complicated lar - just like the french!
And then I realised too that Morgan's birthday is really close to Elun's (only a month apart) so we doubled up the weekend with Elun's 满 月 or the notable first-month's celebration. In traditional belief, it is said that infant mortality rates in China were high and a baby after reaching the first month, ensues a greater likelihood for survival. Hence the call for a celebration.
We did this for Elun because we were so pleased that she arrived safely, albeit getting chicken-pox and chest infections from Morgan later on ... *sigh* as early as 2 weeks old too. Nonetheless she recovered from all that! We even prepared red eggs (we couldn't find red-dye in the french supermarket so we used red water-colour paint to paint over the eggs instead!) and made a little feast. The custom of red-dyed eggs are traditionally handed out as take-home gifts for guests - symbolising happiness and a renewal of life but in our case, we did it for display purpose only.